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From the Ulster Prevention Council Blog: Whitney Houston’s Death Provides an Opportunity to Talk to Youth

2012-02-21T09:17:00.001-05:00

Youth today are so connected through Facebook and Twitter that word travels quite quickly in their world. My 18 year old daughter, Liz, informed me of the death of Whitney Houston as soon as the news was released to the press. We speculated that cocaine may have played a role in her death, but at the time of this writing speculation is that she died from a combination of alcohol and prescription drugs.

Unfortunately, our sons and daughters are becoming accustomed to drug and alcohol overdose deaths. As we talked, she mentioned Heath Ledger, Michael Jackson and Amy Winehouse.

For my generation, celebrity deaths were more often tied to illicit drugs, especially heroin. John Belushi, Janis Joplin and Jim Morrison come to mind. For me, these deaths were a cautionary tale against a lifestyle much removed from my personal experiences. For Liz and her peers, however, overdose deaths are more likely to be attributed to prescription drugs, particularly when substances are mixed together or mixed with alcohol, and often strike much closer to home.

Such tragedies provide prime opportunities to talk with teens and young adults about alcohol and drugs. Ask open ended questions such as “What do you think about that?” One in three teens surveyed say there is “nothing wrong” with abusing prescription drugs “every once in a while”. Talk to your teen about the dangers of abusing alcohol, prescription and over-the-counter drugs. These are powerful drugs that, when abused, can be just as dangerous as street drugs.

Make sure that teens know that they can come to you as a trusted adult if they need help or know someone who needs help. Keep the lines of communication open, and use the news to start meaningful conversations.

Cheryl DePaolo

Ulster Prevention Council

Program Director

Advocacy Alert: Violence Against Women Act

2012-02-13T10:14:00.002-05:00

Some of our allies in the struggle to end violence against women are concerned about the reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act and are requesting our support.

The Violence Against Women Act of 1994 (VAWA) is a United States federal law. It was passed by President Bill Clinton on September 13, 1994. It provided $1.6 billion to enhance investigation and prosecution of violent crimes perpetrated against women, imposed automatic and mandatory restitution on those convicted, and allowed civil redress in cases prosecutors chose to leave unprosecuted.

VAWA was drafted by then U.S. Senator Joseph R. Biden's office with support from a number of advocacy organizations including the National Network to End Domestic Violence, the Texas Council on Family Violence, Futures Without Violence, National Coalition Against Sexual Assault, National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, Legal Momentum and The National Organization for Women, which described the bill as "the greatest breakthrough in civil rights for women in nearly two decades.”

VAWA was reauthorized by Congress in 2000, and again in December 2005. VAWA is up for reauthorization in 2012.

The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) gives law enforcement, prosecutors and judges the resources they need to hold offenders accountable, keeps communities safe while supporting victims, and provides critical funding for prevention and education. It is absolutely essential to the work we do.

The Futures Without Violence organization has asked for our help advocating for reauthorization. Please see their request below:

Here's how you can help today:
There are several prior sponsors who are not on board yet: If any of these senators are from your home state, please ask them to re-commit:

Carper, Thomas R. - (D - DE)
Cochran, Thad - (R)
Cornyn, John - (R - TX)
Grassley, Chuck - (R - IA)
Hatch, Orrin G. - (R - UT)
Hutchison, Kay Bailey - (R - TX)
Inouye, Daniel K. - (D - HI)
Nelson, Ben - (D - NE)
Pryor, Mark L. - (D - AR)
Snowe, Olympia J. - (R - ME)

Here’s a quick and easy way to write to your Senators about S. 1925 (VAWA): http://www.senate.gov/general/contact_information/senators_cfm.cfm

And here’s suggested text for your note:

Dear Senator _____________,

VAWA reauthorization legislation, S. 1925 by Senators Leahy and Crapo, was developed with the input of advocates from around the country and addresses the real and most important needs of victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, dating violence, and stalking. It also invests in small prevention programs to stop the lifetime cycle of abuse and engages more stakeholders in the work to prevent and respond to violence. It is responsive, streamlined, and constitutionally and fiscally sound, while providing strong accountability measures and appropriate federal government oversight. This legislation represents our voices—the voices of victims and advocates. I ask you to wholeheartedly support the swift passage of S. 1925.

Ulster Prevention Council News

2012-02-13T10:11:00.002-05:00

Community Coalitions Work!

I had the privilege of spending this week in National Harbor, Maryland at the Community Anti-Drug Coalitions of America (CADCA) Conference. The message this week has consistently been that community coalitions are effective in reducing local substance use rates among youth and in creating safer and healthier communities. Alcohol and drug problems manifest in local communities and show up in our schools, churches, health centers, and in our homes. Coalition work helps local leaders and community partners organize to identify the youth drug issues unique to their communities and develop the infrastructures necessary to effectively prevent and respond to the these issues to target the prevention needs of youth, their families, and surrounding communities.

The Drug Free Communities Support Program (DFC) is a Federal grant program that provides funding to community-based coalitions that organize to prevent youth substance use. The DFC program has funded nearly 2,000 coalitions and currently mobilizes nearly 9,000 community volunteers across the country. In Ulster County, Kingston Cares and the Community Partnership for a Safer New Paltz have received DFC funding. Recent evaluation data indicate that where DFC dollars are invested, youth substance use is lower.

Over the past five years, DFC-funded communities have achieved significant reductions in youth alcohol, tobacco, and marijuana use. For middle school youth living in DFC-funded communities, data from the 2011 DFC National Evaluation indicate a 12% reduction in alcohol use, 28% reduction in tobacco use, and 24% reduction in marijuana use. High school-aged youth have reduced their use of alcohol by 8%, tobacco by 17%, and marijuana by 11% in DFC-funded communities. Even when communities start their coalition work with substance use rates higher than the national average, they were able to reduce to rates lower than the national average through organized and effective coalition work.

Recent data from the National Survey on Drug Use and Health (NSDUH) as well as local data indicate increases in youth prescription drug abuse, as well as marijuana and ecstasy. Now, more than ever, coalitions are needed in local communities to help prevent drug use and reduce its consequences.

In the coming months, the Ulster Prevention Council will be hosting community meetings throughout the county to raise awareness about local youth substance use issues and the importance of engaging all sectors of the community in addressing these issues. To host a community meeting or find out about organizing a coalition in your area, please contact me at the UPC, 458-7406 or email cdepaolo@familyservicesny.org. Coalitions work!

Regards,

Cheryl DePaolo
Director, Ulster Prevention Council
845-458-7406

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Family Services' CEO Speaks in Support of the Expansion of the NYS DNA Databank

2012-02-13T09:29:00.002-05:00

Family Services' CEO Brian Doyle, along with Dutchess County elected officials and law enforcement representatives, spoke at a press conference at the Dutchess County Sheriff's Office on February 10, 2012 in support of Governor Cuomo's expansion of New York State's DNA Databank.

For more information about this initiative please visit http://www.governor.ny.gov/BuildingaNewNY/dna-databank.

2012 Walk A Mile in Her Shoes

2012-02-06T12:54:00.006-05:00

Save the Date!

Saturday April 21, 2012
Time: 10:30 - 11:30 Registration 11:30 - 12:00 Walk
Location: Marist College McCann Center

Registration Fees:

Individual $20
Team of 3 $30
Youth (12 – 18 years of age) $5
Women – Free
Youth under 12 - Free

Please check back for more registration information. For questions or more information please contact Whitney Bonura, Prevention Educator, at 845-452-1110 ext. 3531 or wbonura@familyservicesny.org

Free Workshop!

2012-02-06T11:19:00.003-05:00

Parents as Partners- Taking the Lead

Workshop/conference for parents and professionals who have children or work with children in schools and/or agencies. This workshop is presented by Ulster County SYSTEM OF CARE. The keynote speaker is Carol Hardesty from Westchester County Family Ties. Ms. Hardesty will speak about parent empowerment with a focus on leadership and communication skills.

Wednesday, March 14, 2012*
4:00-7:30pm
George Washington Elementary School
67 Wall Street, Kingston, NY
Free pizza, Free childcare, Free raffle!

*Snow date is Wednesday, March 21st, from 4:00-7:30pm.

From the Ulster Prevention Council Blog: Alcohol and the Superbowl

2012-02-03T13:26:00.003-05:00

On February 5, millions of Americans will drive to a friend or family member's house to watch the Giants meet the Patriots in Super Bowl XLVI. While the big game is one of the most exciting events of the football season, it is also one of the most dangerous as roads are filled with too many impaired drivers wending their way back home after the parties. Contributing to the inherent dangers of drinking and driving is the relatively late kickoff (6:30 p.m., ET) and the fact that the game may go on for hours.

Last year approximately 151.6 million people viewed at least part of the Super Bowl. Americans consume more than 325.5 million gallons of beer during the Super Bowl, which is approximately 17 times the amount consumed on the average any other day of the year (Nielsen Research).

According to the most recent figures from the National Highway Safety Administration (NHTSA), in 2010, alcohol-impaired-driving crashes accounted for 31 percent of the total motor vehicle traffic fatalities. On Super Bowl Sunday, 48 percent of the fatalities occurred in crashes in which a driver or motorcycle rider had a blood alcohol concentration (BAC) level of .08 or higher. In fact, more than 13,000 Americans died that year in crashes involving an impaired driver.

The U.S. Department of Transportation and National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA), with support from the National Football League (NFL) have joined forces with local highway safety and law enforcement officials to spread an important safety message to the public about designating a sober driver on Super Bowl Sunday – Fans Don’t Let Fans Drive Drunk.

“This message is for everyone who will be drinking during the big game. Make the right play and pass your keys to a designated driver so they can get you home safely,” said Captain Ivan Minsal. “There is no excuse to get flagged for a false start.”

Driving while impaired could result in a loss of your driver’s license or even possibly the loss of your or someone else’s life. On Super Bowl Sunday, make it a team effort to keep ourselves and our loved ones safe. If you plan on driving, plan not to drink alcohol.

If you are hosting a Super Bowl party:
• Make sure all of your guests designate their sober drivers before kick-off or help arrange ride-sharing with sober drivers.
• Find unique ways to recognize the designated drivers at your party:
-Give them a great spot to watch the game.
-Whatever non-alcoholic beverage they are drinking, make sure their glass is always full.
- Let them have the first pass at the buffet table.
- Make sure their cars are easy to access when it is time to start driving people home.
• Serve plenty of food.
• Offer a variety of non-alcoholic choices like soft drinks, juice, and water.
• Serve one drink at a time and serve measured drinks.
• Only serve alcohol to guests over 21 years of age.
• Determine ahead of time when you’ll stop serving alcohol, such as one hour before the party ends or at the end of the third quarter (just like NFL stadiums) and begin serving coffee and dessert.
• Add the numbers of local cab companies into your phone so they are just one touch away.
• Take appropriate steps to prevent anyone from drinking and driving.
• Be prepared for guests to spend the night if an alternative way home is not available.
• Remember, you can be held liable and prosecuted if someone you served ends up in a drunk-driving crash.

If you are attending a Super Bowl party or watching at a sports bar or restaurant, please follow these guidelines to make sure you enjoy Super Bowl XLVI responsibly:
• Designate your sober driver before the party begins.
• Avoid drinking too much alcohol too fast. Pace yourself—eat enough food, take breaks, and alternate with non-alcoholic drinks.
• If you don’t have a designated driver, ask a sober friend for a ride home; call a cab, friend, or family member to come and get you; or just stay where you are and sleep it off until you are sober.
• Use your community’s sober ride program.
• Always buckle up – it’s the best defense against other drunk driving.

Working Together to Cut Out Domestic Violence

2012-02-03T10:42:00.004-05:00

Come Get Your Hair Cut
to Support Victims of Domestic Violence

Join us at Renee's Hair Salon for haircuts, food, fun, prizes and more! All proceeds support Family Services' Battered Women's Services Program.

When: February 17, 2012
11:00am to 6:00pm

Where: Renee's Hair Salon
2649 East Main Street
Wappingers Falls, NY

For more information please call Renee Serino at 845-297-0069 or Kathy Graham at 845-452-1110 x3202. If you or someone you know is in need of domestic violence services please call our 24 hour hotline at 845-485-5550.

Ulster County Data Sets Show Significant Declines in Youth Alcohol Use Over Last Decade

2012-01-30T12:43:00.002-05:00

Ulster County has been collecting youth substance use data biannually through the use of student surveys since 2000. Recently the Ulster Prevention Council was asked by the New York State Office of Alcoholism and Substance Abuse Services to analyze trends in alcohol use rates based on these data sets.

Data analysis found that over the course of the decade (2000-2010) 8th grade lifetime prevalence for alcohol decreased from 46% to 38.4%, and 10th grade lifetime prevalence for alcohol decreased from 71% to 66.9%. Lifetime prevalence tracks the percentage of youth reporting that they have ever had a drink. Over the same time period 8th grade past 30 day prevalence decreased from 22% to 12.8% and 10th grade 30 day prevalence decreased from 45% to 35.9%. Past 30 day prevalence tracks the percentage of youth reporting that they have had at least one drink within the last 30 days.

Survey data sets also show significant declines in binge drinking from 2008 to 2010. 8th grader binge drinking declined from 6.7% to 5.8%, 10^th grade binge drinking declined from 19.2% to 17.3%, and 12^th grade binge drinking declined from 31.3% to 26.9%. Overall, binge drinking declined from 18.7% to 16.3%. Binge drinking is defined as consuming 5 or more drinks in a row within the last two weeks.

Collecting and sharing this information is vital to planning and assessing prevention efforts in Ulster County, and in advocating for ongoing prevention funding.

For more information about this survey and the Ulster Prevention Council please contact the UPC Program Director, Cheryl DePaolo at 845-458-7406

Free Tax Preparation Services Available To Low Wage Workers

2012-01-05T14:33:00.003-05:00

The United Way of Ulster County announces the availability of free tax preparation services for low wage workers making up to $44,000 per year (or less).

The services are available beginning Saturday, January 28 and every Saturday through to March 3, at the Hudson Valley Mall. Appointments are on the hour from 10 AM to 2 PM. For an appointment with an IRS certified volunteer tax preparer call 845-802-7190.

The effort is being promoted by United Way to increase access to the Earned Income Tax Credit which can bring a low-wage worker and her family up to $5,751. Originally created in 1975, it is one of the best anti-poverty tools there is, but it is estimated that 25% of those eligible, don't take advantage of it. Call today for your appointment.

Ulster Prevention Council: 2011 Monitoring the Future Study Results on Synthetic Marijuana

2011-12-30T08:23:00.002-05:00

For the next several weeks Cheryl DePaolo, Director of the Ulster Prevention Council, will be addressing the release of the 2011 Monitoring the Future Survey results. The Monitoring the Future (MTF) study is a long-term epidemiological study that surveys trends in legal and illicit use among American adolescents in 8th, 10th and 12th grades.

The survey is conducted by researchers at the University of Michigan's Institute for Social Research, funded by research grants from the National Institute on Drug Abuse. MTF results are important to us in Ulster County as it gives us national comparison data as we review the results of our biannual Ulster County Youth Development Survey.

The Office of National Drug Control Policy (ONDCP) has issued a Call for Action based on what it called one of the most noteworthy findings of the latest MTF survey. The 2011 survey included for the first time a question on past-year use of synthetic marijuana among high school seniors. Synthetic marijuana (specifically “Spice” and “K2”) consists of leaves of ordinary plants sprayed with chemicals that mimic the mind-altering effects of marijuana. Clemson University organic chemist John W. Huffman created the K2 compound in the mid-1990s to mimic the effects of cannabis on the brain.

The MTF results indicate that the prevalence of use in the past year among 12th graders was estimated at 11.4%. Synthetic marijuana ranked as the second most frequently used illicit substance, after marijuana, among high school seniors.

The 2010 Ulster County YDS did not survey synthetic marijuana use. However, a local scan found that such substances are readily available in gas stations and convenience stores, and local school districts report incidences of students bringing these substances to school.

In 2011, the DEA used emergency scheduling authority to ban the sale of the chemicals used to manufacture K2 and Spice. Many states, including New York, have taken action to ban the chemicals as well. However, manufacturers “tweak” the formulations used to produce these products. An internet search today readily turns up dozens of sites selling “K2 Incense Spice” marketed as “Spicester” and declared to be legal in New York.

Given the latest data, ONDCP states that it will be reaching out to a nationwide network of state and local public health and safety organizations to provide them with the latest information on this public health threat and spur action at the local level. The Ulster Prevention Council welcomes your observations and comments regarding synthetic marijuana in Ulster County.

How Prevalent is Inhalant Abuse in Ulster County?

2011-11-23T09:59:00.002-05:00

In 2009, over 2.1 million kids, ages 12 - 17 used an inhalant to get high [1]. The NIDA-funded 2010 Monitoring the Future Study showed that 8.1% of 8th graders, 5.7% of 10th graders, and 3.6% of 12th graders had abused inhalants at least once in the year prior to being surveyed.

In Ulster County, 12.9% of 8th graders reported using an inhalant to get high at least once, and 6.1% reported using within the last 30 days [2]. 9.3% of 10th graders and 5.8% of 12th graders reported using an inhalant at least once.

Inhalants pose a particularly significant problem since they are readily accessible, legal, and inexpensive. They also tend to be abused by younger teens [3] and can be highly toxic and even lethal.

Most inhalants produce a rapid high that resembles alcohol intoxication. If sufficient amounts are inhaled, nearly all solvents and gases produce a loss of sensation, and even unconsciousness. Irreversible effects can be hearing loss, limb spasms, central nervous system or brain damage, or bone marrow damage. Sniffing high concentrations of inhalants may result in death from heart failure or suffocation (inhalants displace oxygen in the lungs). Even a single session of repeated inhalations can lead to cardiac arrest and death by altering normal heart rhythms or by preventing enough oxygen from entering the lungs. Some abusers experience restlessness, nausea, sweating, anxiety, and other symptoms of withdrawal when they stop taking the drug [4]. Like any other drug when abused, inhalants can also lead to accidents and injuries.

Inhalants include a variety of products that produce breathable chemical vapors that can have mind-altering effects. The substances inhaled are often common household products that contain volatile solvents, aerosols, or gases. Many of these products are commonly found in the home. People do not think that products such as spray paints, nail polish remover, hair spray, glues, and cleaning fluids present any risk of abuse, because their intoxicating effects are so totally unconnected to their intended uses. Yet, young children and adolescents do seek them out for that purpose. Intoxication occurs quickly and usually lasts only a few minutes, making abuse of inhalants easier to conceal than abuse of alcohol or marijuana.

Parents may be unaware of the risks of inhalant abuse. Even those who are watchful for signs of alcohol or drug abuse may not realize the risk associated with products found under the kitchen sink and in the garage. Adults don't have to clear out cabinets, utility closets, and garage shelves to keep young people safe from inhalant abuse. Rather, they should store household products carefully to prevent accidental inhalation by very young children; they should also remain aware of the temptations that these dangerous substances pose to children in their homes, learn the facts, and communicate with children in a way that guides them toward healthy life choices.

[1] National Survey on Drug Use and Health

[2] 2010 Ulster County Youth Development Survey

[3] NIDA Community Alert Bulletin on Inhalants published in January, 2005

[4] NIDA Notes, Volume 20, Number 3 (October 2005) Inhalant Abuse: Danger Under the Kitchen Sink

Leah Feldman receives the 2011 Family Services' President's Award

2011-11-14T13:03:00.004-05:00

Leah Feldman, the Project Coordinator for the Universal Response to Domestic Violence, is the recipient of Family Services’ 2011 President’s Award. The award is given to an employee who distinguishes and exemplifies the values we espouse at Family Services.

In the past year Domestic Violence services and systems have been undergoing a high degree of scrutiny. Leah Feldman has been at the forefront of that analysis and has been charged with strengthening the universal response to domestic violence in Dutchess County during this critical time. A comprehensive review of the system was completed for the Dutchess County Legislature, which included a comprehensive package of recommendations. These recommendations led to an increase in funding for services, despite cuts in many other areas. It also led to an increase in offender accountability measures and changes in State legislation. Leah has brought knowledge and skill to the discussions as well as a great degree of poise under trying circumstances. Her professionalism coupled with a quiet strength has earned her the respect and admiration of a host of stakeholders. Leah’s oral and written presentation skills are of the highest quality, and as such she is often cited in the media, bringing credibility and positive exposure as well as increasing access to services for victims and survivors. She has been able to foster and deepen collaborations, provide leadership and innovation, and advocacy that is far reaching and sustainable. Leah demonstrates a deep commitment to the cause as well as to her colleagues and is perceived as a trusted advisor and leader to many within Family Services.

Congratulations Leah on this well deserved honor!

Children's Center Open House

2011-10-27T13:45:00.006-04:00

You're Invited!

Please join us at the Children's Center at Dutchess County Family Court for our annual open house. Take a tour of the center, meet our professional teachers, and enjoy some delicious refreshments. For more information please contact Wendy Figueroa, Head Teacher, at 845-431-1854.

Thursday, December 1st
12:15 - 2:00 pm
Dutchess County Family Court
50 Market Street, 3rd Floor
Poughkeepsie, NY 12601

We hope to see you there!

Domestic Violence: High Risk Case Conferencing Training

2011-10-27T09:27:00.002-04:00

On October 14^th Family Services, Inc. along with the Dutchess County District Attorney’s Office, the Dutchess County Legislature, and the generous support of the United Way of Dutchess County, sponsored a domestic violence training focused on high risk case conferencing. While our community has a very strong coordinated response to domestic violence, the increase in domestic violence homicides in the past year has prompted the community to critically examine the established systems. New and innovative approaches are needed to increase the safety of victims and accountability of offenders.

The training was focused on a model of high risk case conferencing that uses a research based approach to identifying and addressing high lethality cases of domestic violence. The training involved a multi-disciplinary team with representatives from a variety of systems and agencies including, Family Services, Inc., the District Attorney’s Office, the Dutchess County Legislature, Grace Smith House, the House of Hope, the New York State Police, the Dutchess County Sheriff’s Office, the Town of Poughkeepsie Police, the City of Poughkeepsie Police, Vassar College, Marist College, Dutchess Community College, Health Families of Dutchess County, the Mediation Center of Dutchess County, the New York State Office for the Prevention of Domestic Violence, Mental Hygiene, Probation, Child Protective Services, the medical field, and community members.

This training has initiated the development of a high risk case conferencing team to address highly lethal cases in Dutchess County. As part of this project we will also be engaging systems and agencies in the community to utilize lethality assessments and refer high risk cases to the team. While service providers and law enforcement are already using lethality assessments, it is crucial for other systems and agencies to use them as well. This training will enhance Dutchess County’s ability to protect victims and hold offenders accountable.

“I think that the high risk training was very useful. The knowledge that we gained will allow us to use Dutchess County’s existing coordinated response to identify and prioritize cases involving indicators of elevated risk to victims. Having all the participants assembled for this training really generated discussion of the practical details that will make high risk case conferencing a valuable enhancement to Dutchess County’s response to domestic violence.” - Marjorie Smith, Bureau Chief

Special Victim’s Bureau, Dutchess County District Attorney’s Office

Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault Annual Meeting

2011-10-25T14:49:00.009-04:00

William Spearance

The Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault (CADVSA) recently held their annual meeting and awards ceremony at Vassar College. Awards were presented to William Spearance, former Coordinator of the Domestic Abuse Awareness Classes for Men Program at Family Services and former CADVSA Board of Directors member; and Kathleen Mannix, Administrative Judge at the Department of Labor and former CADVSA Board of Directors member. Special acknowledgments were also presented to John Penney, Editor, on behalf of the Poughkeepsie Journal, and Nilda Rivera of "Mark's Desserts by Nilda."

Nilda Rivera

This past April, Marks’ Desserts by Nilda distributed over 3,000 baked goods a week--including the company’s signature cookies, blondies, brownies, biscotti, and apple cakes--featuring labels with messages to raise awareness about sexual assault and where survivors can get help. Each label prominently displayed Family Services' Crime Victims Assistance Program’s 24-hour crime victims/rape crisis hotline (845-452-7272). April is National Sexual Assault Awareness Month and Nilda Rivera, owner of Marks’ Desserts, volunteered her time and resources to bring this information to residents of Dutchess and surrounding counties. On October 19, Nilda was honored at the local Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault’s Annual Breakfast for her contribution to assist survivors and create awareness about violence against women in our community.

Article on triple homicide imbalanced

2011-10-25T09:27:00.003-04:00

The following letter to the Editor, written by Leah Feldman, Project Coordinator, Universal Response to Domestic Violence, was published by the Poughkeepsie Journal on October 25, 2011.

After a tragedy such as the recent triple homicide in Westchester County, it is hard for family and friends to accept that their loved one could commit such a crime. It is far easier to point out victim flaws as a way of blaming the victim for the atrocities committed against her. We assume that the victim is to blame for what happened, or worse, that the victim deserved it.

The article "Westchester murder-suicide described; friends suggest wife's 'belittling' of husband played role," (Oct. 20) is an imbalanced article that does not take into consideration any perspective from the victim's family.

When a man kills his wife and children, why do we look for her faults? Why do we ask how she drove him to it? It is easy to say that the relationship was toxic. It is easy to say the victim had flaws. No matter the reality of their relationship, no matter the stimulus, there is no justification for homicide as a response.

While we do not know the reality of this couple's relationship, we do know that domestic violence is a pattern of power and control, and we do know that the ultimate control is taking someone's life. Domestic violence is an epidemic in our society, claiming the lives of many women and children. We must look to end this epidemic by holding people accountable for their actions, not by pointing fingers at the victim.

Leah Feldman

Project Coordinator, Universal Response to Domestic Violence

Help Us Provide Thanksgiving to Ulster County Families

2011-10-17T08:36:00.000-04:00

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The Family Education Program of Family Services provides home and group-based parent education to families in Ulster County. We have many traditions that we share with families and one tradition that is very important to us is to make a home-cooked Thanksgiving dinner for the families we work with. The entire staff of our program cooks traditional Thanksgiving dishes as well as some of our own secret family recipes. It is our way of acknowledging the day to day struggles our clients face and providing them with a nurturing experience that they may not have the resources to create for themselves.

This year we do not have the funds in our budget to purchase the items we need for this event. We are asking our neighbors, friends, local business owners, and corporations to donate a little something for our dinner. The items we need are as follows:

Turkeys
Hams
Green beans (canned or frozen)
Stove Top Stuffing Mix
Canned yams
Fresh potatoes
Apples
Pie Crust
Butter
Onions
Carrots

Gift cards to grocery stores are also welcome to help us purchase spices, appetizers and condiments. Please consider making a donation this year so that we can continue this fun and nurturing Family Education tradition. For more information or to make a donation please contact Denise Parent at 845-331-5641 x221.

Family Services Congratulates Joan Crawford

2011-10-14T09:04:00.002-04:00

Joan Crawford, VP of Family Services will tonight receive yet another award for her exemplary service. The 2007 recipient of NYS NASW Social Worker of the Year Award, and the 2008 Ulster Community College Hall of Famer, will be recognized tonight by the YWCA of Ulster County Tribute to Women Celebration.

Joan is being recognized in the category of Advocacy for Women for her many years of service, dedication and contributions to her community. Joan is a principal in Hope’s Fund and has worked tirelessly to improve policies and services for vulnerable populations, with a particular emphasis on women's rights.

Thank you, Joan, for all you do to provide hope, improve lives and strengthen community. You truly make Family Services proud!

Celebrate Family Day Today!

2011-09-26T09:33:00.000-04:00

More than a decade of research by The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University has consistently found that the more often kids eat dinner with their families, the less likely they are to smoke, drink or use drugs.

Photo courtesy of Creative Commons

The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse's Family Day- A Day to Eat Dinner with Your Children, which is sponsored by Stouffer's, is a national movement launched in 2001 that promotes the parental engagement fostered during frequent family dinners as a simple, effective way to prevent substance abuse in kids. Family Day will be celebrated across the country today, September 26, 2011.

To learn more about Family Day and to join parents all across America in taking the Family Day STAR pledge, log on to www.CASAFamilyDay.org. To learn more about the book How to Raise A Drug-Free Kid: The Straight Dope for Parents, visit www.straightdopeforparents.org.

"Shop for a Cause" shopping passes are here!

2011-06-21T16:57:00.000-04:00

We have received the Shop for a Cause shopping passes and are ready to sell them. Please remember that you can sell them to your friends and family members so they can also receive the discounts. Family Services' will receive 100% of the proceeds from every shopping pass that we sell!

Find the magic of giving back, as Macy's celebrates a national day of support for our community. Purchase a $5 Shopping Pass* for exclusive savings in every Macy's store and online at macys.com on Saturday, August 27th, and Family Services will keep 100% of the proceeds. Plus, you can enter to win a $500 Macy's Gift Card.

To purchase a Shopping Pass please contact Jean Calyer at 845-452-1110 x3133, jcalyer@familyservicesny.org, or Hope Shoemaker at 845-452-1110 x3408, hshoemaker@familyservicesny.org.

Day of Service by IBM Employees Helps the Family Partnership Center

2011-06-15T14:22:00.001-04:00

As part of IBM's Celebration of Service, designed to allow employees, retirees, clients and business partners to donate their time and expertise during the company's Centennial year, 300,000 IBMers around the world-- close to three quarters of its global workforce- are volunteering in more than 5,000 projects in 120 countries, meeting civic and societal challenges and serving millions in need.

Today, over 50 IBMers are volunteering their time and services to help spruce up the Family Partnership Center! We are so pleased and grateful for IBM's support!

Revving up the power tools!

Painting the auditorium

Working on an Annex walkway.

Freshening up the front of the Family Partnership Center.

The IBM team sprucing up the Annex backyard!

Representing FSI at the IBM Kick-Off event: (l-r) Dave Sollenberger,
Jean Calyer, Susan West, Hope Shoemaker, John Festa

Shop For A Cause to Support Family Services!

2011-06-13T09:18:00.001-04:00

FIND THE MAGIC OF GIVING BACK!

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Since 2006, Macy's Shop For A Cause Event has partnered with non-profit organizations nationwide to raise more than $38 million for their ongoing charitable efforts. This is your chance to be part of this monumental event on Saturday, August 27, 2011.

Shop For A Cause gives you the opportunity to give back to your community and to help our organization. Purchase a $5 Shopping Pass* for exclusive savings in every Macy's store and online at macys.com on Saturday, August 27th, and Family Services will keep 100% of the proceeds. Plus, you can enter to win a $500 Macy's Gift Card.

Find the magic of giving back, as Macy's celebrates a national day of support for our community. To purchase a Shopping Pass please contact Jean Calyer at 845-452-1110 x3133, jcalyer@familyservicesny.org, or Hope Shoemaker at 845-452-1110 x3408, hshoemaker@familyservicesny.org.

*Some exclusions and restrictions apply.

Important Health Insurance Information

2011-06-13T08:35:00.000-04:00

HHS to Reduce Premiums, Make it Easier for Americans with Pre-Existing Conditions to Get Health Insurance

The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) today announced new steps to reduce premiums and make it easier for Americans to enroll in the Pre-Existing Condition Insurance Plan. Premiums for the Federally-administered Pre-Existing Condition Insurance Plan (PCIP) will drop as much as 40 percent in 18 States, and eligibility standards will be eased in 23 States and the District of Columbia to ensure more Americans with pre-existing conditions have access to affordable health insurance. The Pre-Existing Condition Insurance Plan was created under the Affordable Care Act and serves as a bridge to 2014 when insurers will no longer be allowed to deny coverage to people with any pre-existing condition, like cancer, diabetes, and asthma.

     To further enhance the program, beginning this fall, HHS will begin paying agents and brokers for successfully connecting eligible people with the PCIP program. HHS is also working with insurers to notify people about the PCIP option in their State when their application for health insurance is denied.
     The program covers a broad range of health benefits and is designed as a bridge for people with pre-existing conditions who cannot obtain health insurance coverage in today’s private insurance market. In 2014, all Americans – regardless of their health status – will have access to affordable coverage either through their employer or through new competitive marketplaces called Exchanges, and insurers will be prohibited from charging more or denying coverage to anyone based on their health status.
     For more information, including eligibility, plan benefits and rates, as well as information on how to apply, visit www.pcip.gov and click on “Find Your State.” Then select your State from a map of the United States or from the drop-down menu. To find a chart showing changes to PCIP premiums in the States with Federally-administered PCIP programs, visit www.HealthCare.gov/news/factsheets/pcip05312011a.html.
The PCIP Call Center is open from 8 a.m. to 11 p.m. Eastern Time. Call toll-free 1-866-717-5826 (TTY 1-866-561-1604).    A HHS press release regarding the PCIP changes can be found here: http://www.hhs.gov/news/

Celebrate Family Day September 26th!

2011-06-09T09:05:00.000-04:00

Dinner Makes A Difference

Photo courtesy of Creative Commons

Coming Soon: 2011 Annual Prevention Conference

2011-05-27T08:43:00.000-04:00

Please consider attending the 2011 Annual Prevention Conference, “Where We Stand, 2011.” The conference is being held on June 16, 2011 from 8:00am - 1:30pm. Sponsored by the Ulster Prevention Council, SUNY Ulster, Ulster County Dept. of Mental Health, Ulster County Dept. of Health, the Office of Community Research and the Mid-Hudson Prevention Resource Center, this year's conference will use a new approach to releasing results from the 2010 Youth Development Survey (YDS). The YDS was administered to all 7th-12th graders in each of the 9 Ulster County School districts.

The conference will bring together key stakeholders from schools, agencies, local government, faith-based and youth-serving organizations to continue to provide a venue where participants will actively learn how to promote protective factors and reduce risk factors for children and youth in Ulster. Networking opportunities are built into the conference and will allow each attendee to connect with experts in the field and access a multitude of professional resources.

Conference attendees will be provided with powerful prevention 'tool kits.' Each tool kit will offer community leader’s evidence based strategies for building local capacity and resources to support community development around prevention. Breakfast and Lunch are included. For more information please contact Cheryl DePaolo, Director of the Ulster Prevention Council, at 845-458-7406.

Please click on this link to register: http://events.r20.constantcontact.com/register/event?llr=fqcilzcab&oeidk=a07e3xz9si9c571cc65

Recycled Bike Giveaway!

2011-05-20T10:38:00.000-04:00

On Friday, June 3rd from 3:30-4:30pm

Family Services' Youth Services Department

is having a recycled bike giveaway!

With the help of an amazing volunteer the youth in our Teen Resource Activity Center Program have refurbished used bikes and will be giving them away to people who need them. If you are interested in a bike for you or your child please pick up an application at Family Services' Youth Services Department, Suite 109, 29 North Hamilton Street, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601. Completed applications are due back in Suite 109 by May 27th. All applicants will be informed by June 1st if they have been selected to receive a bike. Please note: All minors receiving a bike must be accompanied by an adult.

If you have any questions or would like more information please contact Diane Labenski, Director of Youth Services, at 845-452-1110 x3170 or via email at: dlabenski@familyservicesny.org.

There's Still Time to Vote!

2011-05-18T11:26:00.000-04:00

Family Services' own Dennis Dean of the Teen Resource Activity Center (TRAC) and Family Services' Board Member Tree Arrington are both nominated for their volunteerism in the community! Dennis has told us that if he wins the award he will donate his cash prize to the TRAC Program!!!

The United Way of Dutchess County and Hands On! The Hudson Valley are inviting the entire community to participate in choosing an awardee of the Spirit of Dutchess County Awards through an online nomination and voting process. Each year the United Way recognizes champions who exemplify the very spirit of volunteerism. This year, one will be chosen by you, the community. Four additional awards, determined by a jury, will also be made. United Way will also grant $1,000 to the Dutchess County 501(3)(c) organization of the awardees choice that is helping making our county a better place in which to live.

Please take a moment and vote www.spiritofdutchess.com

Dept of Labor Report: Women's Employment During the Recovery

2011-05-18T10:11:00.000-04:00

Link to full report: http://www.dol.gov/_sec/media/reports/femalelaborforce/

In 2010, women represented 46.7 percent of the United States labor force, a slightly larger share than at the start of the recession in 2007. Overall 71.9 million women were employed or looking for work, representing 58.6 percent of all women aged 16 and over.

As the overall workforce has become more diverse, so have working women. Among women in the labor force, 13.1 percent are black, 4.7 percent are Asian and 12.8 percent are of Hispanic ethnicity. Along all racial groups, men are more likely to be employed than are women, however black women are almost as likely as black men to be employed — a fact that reflects the lower likelihood of black men working compared to other men. The gender gap is widest among Hispanics — as Hispanic men are more likely than other men to be employed, while Hispanic women are less likely than other women to be employed.
Women are nearly twice as likely as men to work part time. In 2010, 26.6 percent of women worked part time compared to just 13.4 percent of men. More women are currently working part-time than were doing so prior to the recession, reflecting the increase in women working part-time because they can't find full-time work. One in five women working part-time are doing so because they can't find full-time work. Prior to the recession, less than one in ten women working part-time were doing so because they couldn't find full-time work.

Women are nearly 50 percent more likely to work in the public sector than are men with 18.2 percent of employed women working in public sector jobs. Despite this high concentration in a heavily unionized sector — 36.2 percent of those working in the public sector are members of unions compared to 6.9 percent of those in the private sector — women are less likely to belong to a union than are men. In 2010, 11.1 percent of women were union members, compared to 12.6 percent of men.¹

Women are less likely to be self-employed, only 5.5 percent, compared to 8.3 percent of men.² However, women-owned businesses are growing rapidly. According to the most recent Census Bureau Survey of Business Owners (2007), the number of women-owned businesses grew by 20.1 percent between 2002 and 2007, compared to 5.5 percent for men-owned firms. In 2007, the Census counted 7.8 million women-owned business, representing 28.7 percent of all nonfarm businesses in the US.

Women surpass men in educational attainment. Among the employed ages 25 and over, 37.1 percent of women have at least a bachelor's degree compared to 34.9 percent of men. Because women are less likely than men to be in the workforce, female college graduates are still outnumbered by male college graduates in the labor force. However, women with a bachelor's degree outnumber men by 1.6 million in the population as a whole and women are a growing share of college graduates. As such, women college graduates are likely to outnumber male college graduates in the labor force in the near future.

Half of all women working as full-time wage and salary workers earned $669 or more per week in 2010. This median weekly wage was 81.2 percent of that earned by men. Asian women earned the most among women in 2010 — with half of all Asian women earning $778 or more. Hispanic women earned the least, with half of all Hispanic women earning $508 or more per week (and thus half earning less).
The unemployment rate averaged 8.6 percent among women in 2010. Data for March 2011 shows that the economic situation is improving for women, who have seen their unemployment rate decline to 8.3 percent.

However, while the private sector has added 1.7 million jobs over the past 12 months, the public sector has lost nearly 400,000. Since women are disproportionately likely to work in the public sector, their unemployment decline has been smaller than that experienced by men. The unemployment rate for men averaged 10.5 percent in 2010 and has declined to 9.3 percent in March 2011. However women continue to have a lower unemployment rate than men, are less likely to be long-term unemployed, and have a median duration of unemployment that was 1.9 weeks shorter than men's in 2010.

Footnotes

¹Union membership refers to members of a labor union or an employee association similar to a union. However, some workers are represented by unions despite not belonging to a union themselves. In 2010, 12.4 percent of women and 13.8 percent of men were either union or employee association members or workers who report no union affiliation but whose jobs are covered by a union or an employee association contract.
²Self-employed refer to self-employed workers whose businesses are unincorporated.

Nonprofit Advocacy Efforts

2011-05-18T10:04:00.000-04:00

Sue West, President

From the desk of Sue West

What can a government bureaucrat from Connecticut say that would make a room full of NY nonprofit leaders envious?

No, this isn’t one of those light bulb jokes.

Last Friday, Deb Heinrich told the Dutchess County Coalition of Nonprofits about her work as Nonprofit Liaison to Connecticut’s Governor Daniel Malloy. She’s out to change the way Connecticut does business with nonprofits. She wants the state to change from an adversarial “they’re only out to get money from us” posture to a partnership, working together to serve.

What does that mean?

In Connecticut, that means Heinrich has a cabinet-level position representing nonprofits, ensuring that the interests of the people we serve are at the table when money is being cut during these difficult economic times. According to Heinrich it also means some practical money and time saving changes for nonprofits like standardizing and simplifying state contracts and reporting requirements, and redefining how services are delivered. It means breaking down state agency silos so that data can be collected across agencies and analyzed in ways useful for decision making. And, it means community planning to prioritize needs and shape a shared vision for service delivery.

Heinrich has only been in her job since January, but she’s been making things happen in the nonprofit sector for several years as a legislator before taking on this new role. Both the governor and the nonprofits have confidence in her.

So, how about NY? During questions and comments, Representative Mark Molinaro encouraged those of us in the audience Friday to contribute our thoughts to Governor Cuomo’s SAGE Commission. The Spending and Government Efficiency Commission is the governor’s vehicle for introducing change. Not quite the same focus, but we should take advantage of any opportunity we have. Governor Cuomo's SAGE Commission has been tasked with improving the efficiency and quality of government services. They have just launched a website through which the public is invited to make suggestions: www.governor.ny.gov/sage<http://www.governor.ny.gov/sage> . Please share your ideas with the Commission!

I’m getting my thoughts together. How about you?

All the best,

Sue

Dutchess County Fair Housing Survey

2011-05-18T09:12:00.000-04:00

At the beginning of May, Dutchess County and the City of Poughkeepsie Community Development Programs released a community survey related to fair housing issues. The survey is available at the link below. It includes questions about traditional fair housing concerns (such as racial and ethnic discrimination) and “fair housing choice.” Fair housing choice is about making sure people have a variety of housing choices available to them throughout the community.

This survey is totally anonymous and should take about 10 minutes.The survey will be open until Monday, May 23, 2011. If you have any questions, please contact Beth Doyle, Community Development Administrator at (845) 486-3600 or edoyle@co.dutchess.ny.us. Thank you for your assistance.

Survey link: https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/FairHousingChoiceSurvey-English

Paul Robeson Presentation A Great Success!

2011-05-16T10:06:00.000-04:00

Thanks to all who attended the Paul Robeson: An American Life presentation presented by the Sadie Peterson Delaney African Roots Library on May 7th.

Guest enjoying the reception (L-R) Olive Douglas, Violet Mazah, Marie Tarver, Terri LeRoy

Co-Director of Sadie Peterson Delaney African Roots Libray Odell Winfield with Tony Mitchelson, who read his inspirational poetry at the event.

Actor Michael Monasterial of Passing the Torch Through The Arts giving a speech based on the life of Paul Robeson.

Our featured lecturer (left), Dr. Michael Morrison, with Rodney Douglas, Director of Poughkeepsie's New Day Repertory.

Join Us Today at the Unity March

2011-05-10T10:01:00.000-04:00

Unity March to end domestic violence! May 10, 2011

Domestic violence service providers in Dutchess County invite you to join us in unity. We will take to streets of the City of Poughkeepsie to rally against domestic violence. Please join us as we support all victim services and honor victims and survivors of domestic violence. Your commitment to join us will demonstrate our strength in numbers and dedication to ending the violence.

For more information please contact Leah Feldman, Project Coordinator, Universal Response to Domestic Violence, at 845-486-2335 or lfeldman@co.dutchess.ny.us

Family Services Supports Big Brothers Big Sisters of Ulster County!

2011-05-10T09:58:00.000-04:00

Family Services' staff bravely laced up their shoes and took to the lanes to help support our affiliate organization, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Ulster County. The Bowl for Kids Sake is an annual fundraising event for BBBS.


Left to right: Sasha Helton, Mike Coleman, Sue West, Anthony Lucky, Jean Calyer, Jessica Wallach, Doug & Tess Nostrand

Since 1977, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Ulster County has been helping children to reach their potential through professionally supported mentoring relationships. Many of us, if we think back to our youth, had an adult make an impact on our lives. Maybe you were a Little Brother/Little Sister yourself... maybe it was a coach, a teacher a pastor. It was the person who made you feel special and helped you on the path to adulthood. That’s what BBBS wants for these children.

For more information on BBBS and their events please call (845) 338-0431 or visit their website at www.bigbrothersbigsistersulster.org

GPS surveillance plan under review in Dutchess

2011-04-27T12:44:00.000-04:00

Leah Feldman, Coordinator of the Universal Response to Domestic Violence, wrote the following opinion piece that was featured in the Poughkeepsie Journal on April 24, 2011.

Recent domestic violence homicides have prompted a community-wide effort to improve victim safety and offender accountability. As outlined in our October report to the Legislature, the Citizen's Advisory Committee on Domestic Violence has considered and recommended many different initiatives — including the GPS tracking of domestic violence offenders.

While GPS has been used successfully in locations other than New York, it has not been implemented in other than limited pilot projects in this state. Significant study and planning must be completed before GPS can be operational in Dutchess County. The committee is actively engaged in that task so that responsible recommendations can be made to the Legislature.

GPS can alert law enforcement agencies and victims whenever an offender enters a restricted zone. An electronic bracelet placed on the offender sends a signal to a computer allowing police to immediately contact the victim and also dispatch an officer to the location, buying a victim crucial time to find safety.

People assume that victims will enter a shelter if they are at risk. The reality is that there are obstacles for women entering shelters, and the forms of protection given by the system are limited. Under the current law, offenders are legally entitled to have bail set and work is under way to amend the law to allow a judge to consider the safety of a victim when considering bail. GPS tracking can provide constant offender monitoring when the accused is free after posting bail, thus allowing victims to be protected as they move about their lives.

On the surface, GPS surveillance seems like a no-brainer since it would help to enforce
the system's ability to protect a victim. Unfortunately, GPS monitoring is not always a cure-all, and implementation of the system takes extensive mobilization and resources from the community.

The technology itself presents loopholes that must be studied. These issues include the ability of the bracelets to detect offenders in the county's "no-service" zones. Use of GPS in more densely populated areas, where offenders may reside or work in closer proximity to victims, presents additional issues that must be understood prior to adoption of this new technology. Given the fact that use of this technology has no significant precedent in the State of New York, there are a multitude of legal and practical issues that must be identified and addressed before it can simply "happen."

Implementation of this system must address a process for training multiple law enforcement agencies and judges. It also needs to create a selection process to assure its deployment for appropriate offenders. We also must ensure that all community agencies are committed to use of the technology for the safe and effective implementation of the system.

Lastly, funding must be considered. Some of the costs included with the technology
are the bracelets themselves, the GPS servers and software, and the salaries for the people operating the computers 24/7.

We stand by our initial recommendation for GPS. Consideration, however, must be given to the multiple concerns that must be addressed before such a program is adopted. We are actively undertaking a comprehensive review to ensure that the plan can work, that it is affordable and that above all, it improves safety for victims. The committee, along with other local domestic violence organizations and representatives of the law enforcement community, is working to mobilize the community to explore and support this technology. The committee maintains constant contact with the county Legislature through its appointed liaison. Together we are actively working to change how the law and society treat domestic violence.

For the original article please visit: http://www.poughkeepsiejournal.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=2011104240349

Family Services is One of 23 Agencies in Nation Receiving Unique Grant

2011-04-27T06:22:00.000-04:00

JUSTICE DEPARTMENT ANNOUNCES $6.9 MILLION IN GRANTS TO ENGAGE MEN IN PREVENTING CRIMES AGAINST WOMEN

WASHINGTON – The U.S. Department of Justice Office on Violence Against Women (OVW) announced $6.9 million in awards to 23 projects in the Engaging Men in Preventing Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Dating Violence and Stalking Grant Program (Engaging Men Grant Program). This is the first time in the history of OVW that a grant program directly encourages men to be part of successful crime prevention efforts addressing sexual assault, domestic violence, dating violence and stalking, and to become partners in creating respectful and positive relationships.

The Engaging Men Grant Program creates a unique opportunity for OVW to support public education campaigns and community organizations to encourage men and boys to work as allies with women and girls for preventing violence.

“All men play a critical role in preventing crimes against women and are important partners in our effort to address the full spectrum of these crimes,” said Susan B. Carbon, Director of the Office on Violence Against Women. “These grants and the work of the grantees will provide the framework for extending and developing these partnerships across the country.”

The funded projects include non-profit non-governmental victim services agencies; non-profit community based agencies; state domestic violence or sexual assault coalitions; an institution of higher education; a unit of local government; a tribal coalition; and a tribal non-profit victim services agency. These awards are part of OVW’s ongoing commitment to support gender and culturally specific education on healthy relationships and strengthen existing community outreach efforts to men and boys.

The following 23 organizations received $300,000 :

·         Alaska Network on Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault (Juneau, Alaska)
·         Korean American Family Service Center Inc. (Los Angeles)
·         Peace Over Violence (Los Angeles)
·         Howard University (Washington, D.C.)
·         Tapestri Inc. (Tucker, Ga.)
·         Idaho Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence (Boise, Idaho)
·         Maine Boys to Men (Portland, Maine)
·         Maine Coalition to End Domestic Violence (Augusta, Maine)
·         Boston Public Health Commission (Boston)
·         Michigan Coalition Against DV and Sexual Assault (Okemos, Mich.)
·         Family & Children’s Service (Minneapolis)
·         Minnesota Indian Women’s Sexual Assault Coalition (St. Paul, Minn.)
·         North Carolina Coalition Against Sexual Assault (Raleigh, N.C.)
·         North Dakota Council on Abused Women’s Services (Bismarck, N.D.)
·         Enlace Comunitario (Albuquerque, N.M.)
·         Family Services Inc. (Poughkeepsie, N.Y.)
·         Retreat Inc. (East Hampton, N.Y.)
·         Vera House Inc., (Syracuse, N.Y.)
·         Klamath Crisis Center (Klamath Falls, Ore.)
·         White Buffalo Calf Woman Society Inc. (Mission, S.D.)
·         Migrant Clinicians Network Inc. (Austin, Texas)
·         Migrant Health Promotion Inc. (Weslaco, Texas)
·         Refugee Women’s Alliance (Seattle)

The Office on Violence Against Women (OVW), a component of the U.S. Department of Justice, provides leadership in developing the nation’s capacity to reduce violence against women through the implementation of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) and subsequent legislation. Created in 1995, OVW administers financial and technical assistance to communities across the country that are developing programs, policies and practices aimed at ending domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault and stalking. In addition to overseeing 21 federal grant programs, OVW often undertakes initiatives in response to special needs identified by communities facing acute challenges.

More information is available at www.ovw.usdoj.gov .

There's still time to register for Walk A Mile in Her Shoes!

2011-04-26T12:39:00.000-04:00

Family Services' Crime Victims Assistance Program’s first annual Walk a Mile in Her Shoes event will take place this Saturday (4/30) at 1PM at Marist College!

Everyone is invited! Help us raise awareness and support Crime Victims. You can register as an individual or a team. We’ve got great prizes for walkers who bring in the most sponsorships. If you don’t have a pair of heels, don’t worry we’ve got a pair of pink flip flops for you!

For more information or to register, go to http://www.familyservicesny.org/WalkAMile2011.php

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It’s Your Turn to Make a Difference

2011-04-18T11:47:00.001-04:00

Don't forget...April is Child Abuse Prevention month!

Amy Cole, Supervisor of the Family Education Program

There are so many things we can all do for the kids and families in our lives. Try this: make special time for children, really listen to what they have to say, support other parents who are struggling, acknowledge that parenting is tough work, and spend time with families in you neighborhood. You can even plant a Pinwheel Garden! Pinwheels are a sign of happy, carefree childhoods and represent Child Abuse Prevention month. Now, more than ever, it is crucial that we all participate in some way to strengthen our communities for the sake of our children, our future. Raising happy, healthy children is a community effort that will pay off in amazing ways. Let’s do it right the first time instead of trying to fix it later on!

To learn more, or to get some support as a parent, here are a few resources: Family Services Family Education Program – Amy Cole 331-5641 x223; The Parent Helpline – 1-800-CHILDREN (244-5373) every day from 9am to 10pm, a confidential line available in English and Spanish.

Visit www.familyservicesny.org or www.preventchildabuseny.org

Please Join Us at the Unity March

2011-04-15T09:41:00.000-04:00

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Unity March to end domestic violence!

May 10, 2011

For more information please contact Leah Feldman, Project Coordinator, Universal Response to Domestic Violence, at 845-486-2335 or lfeldman@co.dutchess.ny.us

Three cheers from the The Poughkeepsie Journal

2011-04-12T08:55:00.000-04:00

Three cheers | The Poughkeepsie Journal | poughkeepsiejournal.com

To those working to highlight April as Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Dutchess County officials, members of local police departments and representatives of the Crime Victims Assistance Program and the Center for the Prevention of Child Abuse hosted a news conference last week to call attention to the issue. They noted the local services available to victims. "It shouldn't be just April that we pay special attention to this. It should be all year round," said Dutchess County Sheriff Butch Anderson.

To raise money for victims, the Crime Victims Assistance Program is hosting an April 30 event called "Walk a Mile in Her Shoes." The old saying, "You can't really understand another person's experience until you've walked a mile in her shoes," is the inspiration for this international walk, which asks men to literally walk one mile in women's high-heeled shoes. High heels can be very uncomfortable, and Old Navy is donating dolled-up flip-flops for guys who don't want to feel the pain. For these guys, they might finally get a true understanding of the bumper sticker that says, "Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did except backward and in high heels."

The entire community, however, is welcome to participate. To sign up for the event, go to www.familyservicesny.org/WalkAMile2011.php or call call Sharon Doane at the Family Services' Crime Victims Assistance Program, 845-452-1110, Ext. 3127.

Free Workshop!

2011-04-11T10:32:00.000-04:00

The Dutchess County Coalition of Nonprofits Presents

"Strengthening Government & Nonprofit Relationships in New York State: Lessons Learned from Deb Heinrich, Nonprofit Liaison to the Governor of Connecticut"

May 13th, 2011 10:00am to 12:00pm
Locust Grove Estate
Cost: FREE
Register now at: http://dccoalitionnpadvocateevent.eventbrite.com/

As State and County governments are forced to make cuts in staffing and services, our citizens and our public officials are turning increasingly to non-profit organizations to fill the gap. To do so efficiently and effectively, government and the non-profit sector must communicate and collaborate as much as possible. However, in NY State and Dutchess County, there is little or no mechanism for this two-way dialog and cooperation. This presentation will present one possible model to bring government and the non-profits together to benefit our common constituency.

Together, we are going to tackle some important issues facing our sector and hopefully gain some important insight as to how we can encourage our State and Local leaders to make a strong statement about the nonprofit sector as they have in Connecticut.

The McHoul Family Receives the Lifetime Achievement Award

2011-03-25T17:55:00.001-04:00

Three Generations of McHouls

Doug and Marikay McHoul have raised a family that embodies a living legacy to their lifetime of achievement. Three generations of McHouls work together in a family business, the McHoul Funeral Home, and give countless hours of community service through fundraising and volunteering.

Please join us in the comment section below in thanking them, congratulating them on their award, and sharing your stories about them.

Kevin and Betsy Carswell Receive the Good Neighbor Award

2011-03-25T17:50:00.001-04:00

The Carswells embody the best of good neighbors. They recognize unaddressed challenges facing Hudson Valley nonprofits and step up to fill the gaps. Whether its rallying IBMers or classmates at school, they find ways to engage others in the community in joining them in projects. In that way, the hours they spend volunteering get multiplied many times over.

Please join us in the comment section below in thanking them, congratulating them on their award, and sharing your stories about them.

Rev. and Mrs. Jesse V. Bottoms Receive the Quality of Life Award

2011-03-25T17:49:00.001-04:00

Rev. and Mrs. Bottoms have been selected for the Quality of Life Award for their contributions to improving the lives of both individuals and the community in Poughkeepsie, Dutchess County, and nationally. We honor their teaching and commitment to debt-free living and their leadership in both religious and civic life.

Please join us in the comment section below in thanking them, congratulating them on their award, and sharing your stories about them.

Brian and Kimberly Hunt Lee – The Spirit of the Future

2011-03-25T17:47:00.002-04:00

Kim and Brian Lee stay flexible to balance dual careers, raising their two young children in an extended and blended family, and leadership in Hudson Valley charitable events and committees. These are challenges most young families face today. We honor them because they are the Spirit of the Future.

Please join us in the comment section below in thanking them, congratulating them on their award, and sharing your stories about them.

Come have fun at Crime Victims' Walk a Mile in Her Shoes event!

2011-03-21T10:33:00.000-04:00

Walk a Mile in Her Shoes

There’s an old saying: "You can't really understand another person's experience until you've walked a mile in their shoes." Walk a Mile in Her Shoes asks men literally to walk one mile in women's shoes. It's not easy walking in these shoes, but it's fun and it gets the community talking about something that's really difficult to talk about: gender relations and sexual violence.

Family Services' Crime Victims Assistance Program’s first annual Walk a Mile in Her Shoes event will take place at 1PM April 30 at Marist College. Everyone is invited! Help us raise awareness and support Crime Victims.

You can register as an individual or a team. We’ve got great prizes for walkers who bring in the most sponsorships. If you don’t have a pair of heels, don’t worry we’ve got a pair of pink flip flops for you!

For more information or to register, go to familyservicesny.org and click on Walk a Mile in HER Shoes under “Happenings.”

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Help Us Celebrate the Opening of the Paul Robeson Program

2011-03-14T08:54:00.000-04:00

Join the Sadie Peterson Delaney African Roots Library
To celebrate the opening of the Library’s

Paul Robeson Program

May, 7th 2011 2pm to 6pm

Paul Robeson: An American Life

Lecture: Dr. Michael Morrison “O Worthy Pioneers”
Historical contributions of Paul Robeson and
Other African American actors to theater and the performing arts

Lateef Islam Auditorium
Family Partnership Center
29 North Hamilton St., Poughkeepsie, NY 12601

Sponsored By
New York Council for the Humanities
Sadie Peterson Delaney African Roots library a program of Family Services

Legal Health Rights of Minors- Free Workshop!

2011-03-10T15:40:00.000-05:00

Family Services' Youth Services Department invites you to attend a FREE workshop about the legal health rights of minors.

All are invited!

When: Tuesday, April 26th

Time: 1:00 - 2:30 workshop for providers

3:00 - 4:30 workshop for youth

Location: Family Partnership Center

29 North Hamilton Street

Poughkeepsie, NY 12601

Cost: FREE

For more information please contact

Diane Labenski, Director of Youth Services

845-452-1110 x3170

dlabenski@familyservicesny.org

There's still time to buy your raffle tickets!

2011-03-07T09:54:00.000-05:00

Image via Wikipedia

You can win a three or four day Royal Caribbean Cruise to the Bahamas for two* or an iPad with 3G and wifi -- first and second prize for the Family of the Year raffle.

Tickets: $10 each or three for $25. To purchase tickets contact Jean Calyer at 452-1110 x3135

Drawing: 8 p.m., April 7, 2011 at the Family of the Year Dinner, Grandview. Winners do not have to be present.

Family Services' Youth Council Launches Prom Project 2011

2011-03-03T11:14:00.000-05:00

The Family Services Youth Council would like you to help make Prom Project a reality!

Image by hcplebranch via Flickr

Prom Project is one of our latest goals that we are striving to make a success. It is a way to show the teens of today's high schools that they can look beautiful and have a night to remember, no matter what their situation is. We are looking for the donations of gently used and clean prom gowns. A dress to wear on a special occasion to make the lucky girl feel like a princess on the night of nights. Any accessories, shoes, or make up would also be greatly appreciated.

Once late March rolls on in, we will open our doors and let the wonderful young women come and get a free dress. Donating just one dress can help give a teen joy and hope not to mention the smiles. Of course, it isn't just the ladies who find themselves in rough times. Any donated tuxedos, suits, or even dress shirts and pants for our handsome gentlemen make a difference. Please get a hold of Katherine Raynor by phone, (845) 452-1110 x3344, or by email, kraynor@familyservicesny.org, if you would like to make a donation or if you have any questions.

The Family Services Youth Council is also looking for new members who want to make a difference or help with the project. We have lots of future projects planned and your help could make a world of difference. The Youth Council is a way for youth to help their peers and make a difference in the community. Contact Katherine at the above information if you’d like to join or wish to find out more information. Membership is free. Meetings are the first and third Tuesday of every month at 4:30 in the Family Partnership Center. If you would like to get a dress for your prom please call and make an appointment and you will be fit into that perfect dress.

Community Partnerships Launch “Tobacco Marketing Works” Campaign

2011-03-02T14:32:00.000-05:00

ALBANY, N.Y. (February 10, 2011) – An innovative media campaign was launched today to educate New Yorkers about the effect that tobacco industry products and marketing in stores have on youth smoking. The campaign reflects research that in-store marketing is more powerful than peer pressure, and youth are twice as likely as adults to be influenced by tobacco product displays and other marketing.

“In New York State, the tobacco industry spends approximately $1.1 million per day to market its deadly products.” stated Ellen Reinhard, Director of Tobacco Free Action Coalition of Ulster County. “Everyday, our kids are exposed to a tremendous amount of tobacco marketing in our grocery stores, convenience stores and pharmacies. Exposure to this tobacco marketing in stores is a primary cause of youth smoking.”

“It’s time to protect our kids. It is not an accident that tobacco products are displayed in the most prominent location in stores,” said Susan Kennedy, Community Partners Media Project Coordinator. “Research has also shown that retailers near schools have more products on display and more signs. The tobacco industry insists that they don’t target kids, but that’s not what it looks like in retail stores around the state.”

The tobacco industry spends half a billion dollars a year to market cigarettes in New York State, a portion of which is used to pay tobacco retailers to display tobacco products in the most visible location in the store — directly behind the counter where all customers must pay for their purchases. A recent American Cancer Society survey of 677 New York state tobacco retailers reported that 88% of stores statewide display tobacco products directly behind the counter, and 79% of stores contained tobacco advertising.

“Thanks to the Community Partnerships for illustrating a problem which has largely gone unchecked: in-store tobacco marketing that is hooking our kids on a deadly product,” said Scott T. Santarella, President and CEO of the American Lung Association in New York. “Because the average nonsmoking adult doesn’t pay close attention, there’s a faulty perception out there that this marketing isn’t doing any harm. Nothing could be further from the truth. These tactics are very effective in helping the industry get new customers. Sadly, those new customers are our kids.”

Community Partnerships for a Tobacco Free New York are funded by the NY Tobacco Control Program. They educate community leaders and the public about the dangers and social costs of tobacco use, engage local stakeholders to adopt policies that restrict the tobacco industry’s presence, seek to de-normalize tobacco use and eliminate secondhand smoke.

For more information, visit TobaccoFreeNYS.org.

Join Us for a Black History Month Celebration

2011-02-25T05:22:00.003-05:00

This event is being brought to our community by Real Skills Network, a positive youth development program run by Tree Arrington, a Family Services Board member.

Celebrating Black History Month

Saturday, February 26th 12:00pm - 5:00pm

Lateef Islam Auditorium Family Partnership Center

29 N. Hamilton Street Poughkeepsie, NY

Featuring:

Professional Lectures on Black Studies
Traditional African Dances & Drumming by J&G Consultants
A one woman theatrical production by Carolyn Evans called "Harriet Tubman"
Dances by M*Power Cultural Dance & Fitness
FREE Southern African Cuisine
Community Discussion led by Michael Gee
A Showcase of Talent
Youth Tribute to African American History: Readings by Project Thunder Youth & other local youth
Spoken Word by Gold
Interactive Capoeira Workshop with Graduado Azulao

Standing on the Shoulders of Greatness

Employment Opportunity- Crime Victims Therapist

2011-02-23T13:58:00.000-05:00

Join Our Dynamic Team!

Family Services’ Crime Victims Assistance Program is seeking an enthusiastic and dedicated full-time therapist to provide trauma therapy to adult and child victims of crime. Job responsibilities include: providing assessment, individual and group therapy; crisis intervention; responding to hotline calls; providing in-services and community presentations on related issues. Some on-call services are necessary. MSW or MA with NYS license required. Experience working with victims a plus.

Send resume and cover letter to Sharon Doane, Director of Forensic Services: sdoane@familyservicesny.org by 3/4/11.

Have You Bought Your Raffle Tickets Yet?

2011-02-23T10:00:00.003-05:00

photo credit: alykat

You can win a three or four day Royal Caribbean Cruise to the Bahamas for two* or an iPad with 3G and wifi -- first and second prize for the Family of the Year raffle.

Tickets: $10 each or three for $25. To purchase tickets contact Jean Calyer at 452-1110 x3135

Drawing: 8 p.m., April 7, 2011 at the Family of the Year Dinner, Grandview. Winners do not have to be present.

*Sponsored in part by Hunt Travel. Airfare to embarkation site in Florida not included.

Officials: 'Bath Salts' Are Growing Drug Problem

2011-02-20T16:20:00.000-05:00

Image by Ancient Oils via Flickr

Law enforcement officials throughout the country are reporting that products promoted as bath salts have become prevalent as a drug of abuse. Bath salts have recently appeared in some of the same retail outlets that previously sold synthetic cannabinoid products such as K2 and Spice, and also are available via the Internet. Bath salts are abused as recreational drugs typically by injection, smoking, snorting, and, less often, by the use of an atomizer. Effects include agitation, an intense high, euphoria, extreme energy, hallucinations, insomnia, and making abusers easy to anger. Preliminary testing indicates that the active ingredients in many brands contain MDPV (3,4-methylenedioxypyrovalerone) and/or mephedrone.

The abuse of bath salts and similar substances appears to be increasing, especially over the past 12 months. As synthetic cannabinoids are scheduled in various locations, many of their users begin to abuse bath salts. In addition to bath salts, these products are marketed as bath crystals, plant food, and herbal incense. Numerous brands are marketed in all 50 U.S. states and via Internet web sites. Common brand names include Blue Silk, Charge+, Ivory Snow, Ivory Wave, Ocean Burst, Pure Ivory, Purple Wave, Snow Leopard, Stardust (Star Dust), Vanilla Sky, White Dove, White Knight, and White Lightening. In central Pennsylvania, these substances have been offered for sale under the brand name “Blizzard.” The Blizzard brand is described as a white, odorless, fine-grained powder similar in appearance to baby powder or flour. Many other brands are a tan or brown powdery substance.

These products are readily available at convenience stores, discount tobacco outlets, gas stations, pawnshops, tattoo parlors, and truck stops, among other locations. Packaging typically includes a disclaimer, such as “not for human consumption.” The various brands are sold in 50-milligram to 500-milligram packets. Prices range from $25 to $50 per 50-milligram packet. These products have been widely available in the United Kingdom for at least several years. This year, a number of overdoses have been reported in the United Kingdom, including some deaths. A ban of bath salt products that contain MDPV went into effect in the United Kingdom on April 16, 2010.

Nationwide, male and female abusers of these substances range from teenagers to those in their 40s, often with an extensive history of drug abuse. Some abusers describe the effects as similar to methamphetamine, ecstasy, and cocaine, and one referred to the substances as “complete crank” while others used the term “fake cocaine.”

The genesis of this watch was originally posed as a SENTRY ListServ question on December 7, 2010. POC: SENTRY Management Team, www.justice.gov/ndic/sentry or (814) 532-5888

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month

2011-02-20T15:55:00.001-05:00

After a presentation I had given to an eighth grade class, a female student came up to me and asked me if her boyfriend was abusive if he shoved her into walls during fights. She also expressed other abuses that were occurring and told me that she never thought he was being abusive because she was the one that always made him angry.

This is an all too common example of teen dating violence. Many people believe that abusive relationships do not exist among teens, but abusive relationships exist in all walks of life regardless of age, gender, race, sexual orientation, ability, and religion. In fact, one out of three teenagers experiences abuse in their relationships. Yet the majority of teens who are physically abused continue to date their partner. Unfortunately, just like that eighth grade student, many of these teens do not consider what they are experiencing to be abusive. This is why education about teen dating violence is so important. In recent years the Battered Women’s Services Youth Domestic Violence Prevention and Education Program had educated over 2,500 students in Dutchess County each year on the warning signs of abusive relationships. These presentations are provided free of charge in middle schools, high schools, colleges, and community programs throughout Dutchess County, and Battered Women’s Services provides follow-up counseling for any student who wants it.

This January, the US Senate passed a resolution that named February as National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. This resolution is a testament to the important work the Battered Women’s Services Youth Domestic Violence Prevention and Education Program has been doing in the community. The Senate has recognized the alarming statistics that show the severity of teen dating violence. Statistics such as:

One in every three teenage girls experience abuse in their relationship. This is a far greater victimization rate than other forms of violence among teens.*
Nearly 10% of teens experience physical abuse from their boyfriend or girlfriend.*
Although most parents (82%) feel they can recognize if their child is in an abusive relationship, many parents (58%) could not correctly identify the warning signs.*
Many students who are in abusive relationships do not recognize their relationships as abusive.*
Relationships in which the pattern of violence started during adolescence are shown to have a greater severity of violence.*

Most importantly, the Senate has acknowledged that education is a key piece in the prevention of teen dating violence.

The following year, I had met the same student during another presentation as a freshman in high school. She told me that she had dumped her boyfriend, and thanked me.

Family Services' Youth Council
members Lindsey Graham and
Hayley Ferris working on the
Teen Dating Violence Awareness
Project at the Family Partnership Center.

For over thirty years the Battered Women’s Services Youth Domestic Violence Prevention and Education Program has done an incredible amount of work towards educating teenagers in Dutchess County about the dangers of dating violence, but there is always more work to do. If you would like to discuss ways to help address teen dating violence, or if you are interested in having someone come and speak about this topic please contact Katherine Raynor, the Youth Domestic Violence Prevention and Education Coordinator, at 452-1110 x3344, or kraynor@familyservicesny.org. If you are being abused in your relationship, or if someone you know is being abused, please call our 24-hour hotline to speak to a counselor: (845) 485-5550

For more information about teen dating violence, please visit http://www.loveisrespect.org/

*Please visit http://www.womenspolicy.org/site/News2?page=NewsArticle&id=10378 for more information on this resolution.

Saturday, Feb. 19, Slavery in the Hudson Valley

2011-02-14T16:40:00.000-05:00

Here's an event worth traveling to Albany:

“… a weed that grows on every soil”

a panel discussion and performance about slavery in the Hudson Valley

Saturday, February 19, 2011

3:00 P.M. - 5:00 P.M.

The New York State Museum

Michael Monasterial will present
stories about the life of an escaped
slave in the Hudson Valley

Join us for a panel discussion on slavery in the Hudson Valley with leading scholars and historians. The discussion will be followed by a performance detailing the life of an escaped slave who lived in Mount Gulian, N.Y.

This is program is sponsored by the New York State Office of Parks, Recreation and Historic Preservation and the New York State Museum. Doors open to the Clark Auditorium, Concourse level at 2:30 p.m.

This is a free event celebrating Black History Month.

Win a Royal Caribbean Cruise or an iPad

2011-02-11T12:09:00.000-05:00

Bahamas Coat of Arms via Wikipedia

You can win a three or four day Royal Caribbean Cruise to the Bahamas for two* or an iPad with 3G and wifi -- first and second prize for the Family of the Year raffle.

Tickets: $10 each or three for $25
To purchase tickets contact Jean Calyer at 452-1110 x3135

Drawing: 8 p.m., April 7, 2011 at the Family of the Year Dinner, Grandview. Winners do not have to be present.

*Sponsored in part by Hunt Travel. Airfare to embarkation site in Florida not included.

Come Thank These Great Volunteers, Feb. 17, 4-5:30, Family Partnership Center

2011-02-09T16:19:00.000-05:00

Sue West, President

From Sue West’s Desk

If you live in the Hudson Valley, I’d like you to join me on February 17 when Family Services will be honoring the volunteers who give of their time and talents to make it possible for people in the Valley to help themselves manage some of the toughest problems families have to face.

Every year we hold a reception to say thank you to Family Services’ volunteers. In addition, our employees nominate two volunteers to honor for outstanding service to the community. This year we honor Sarah Beaumont and Dennis Dean.

Volunteering comes from the heart, from the passion a person feels for some issue or the compassion they have for people in need.

Sarah’s passion is helping victims of domestic violence. For four years, starting as an intern, she has volunteered on the hotline, counseled victims, advocated for their rights, educated legislators, provided childcare so mothers attend the Battered Women’s support group, participated in teen dating violence prevention education for middle and high school students, and helped to train new volunteers. And, that doesn’t count adopting a family at Christmas.

In addition to her time and energy, Sarah brings a special understanding and knowledge of working with women and children with disabilities. She has done all this while finishing college, establishing herself as a young graduate, and starting a career.

Dennis’s passion is Poughkeepsie’s adolescents – providing them not only safety, hot food, and recreation at TRAC every day, but nurturing and mentoring them so that they can learn to be good citizens and parents in the future. You may know Dennis as a TRAC employee, but his commitment far exceeds a paid gig. When funding for TRAC evaporates, as it did last October, Dennis volunteers. As he pointed out, if we closed TRAC’s doors, we would never get them open again. He made the commitment to keep the center functioning with the same high standards established with a paid staff.

I’d like you to join me in thanking Sarah and Dennis and the many other volunteers they represent. They are helping all of us as we cope with crises, challenges, and growing pains. I hope to see you there.

Family Services Volunteer Appreciation Reception

February 17, 2011 (Snow date: 1/24)

4:00 to 5:30 pm

Family Partnership Center Cafeteria

29 North Hamilton Street

Poughkeepsie

No RSVP required

2011-02-09T11:21:00.000-05:00

The Family Education Program of Family Services Inc.
Presents
The Nurturing Parenting®Program

The Nurturing Program® is a twelve week workshop for parents based on four core values:

Love of Life
Respect for All Living Things
Structure and Discipline
Laughter, Humor and Play

12 Weeks, beginning March 2, 2011
Wednesdays 11:00 am - 1:00 pm

Topics include:

The Philosophy and Practices of Nurturing Parenting
Ages and Stages of Growth for Infants and Toddlers
Ways to Enhance Positive Brain Development in Children and Teens
Communicating with Respect
Building Self-Worth in Children
Understanding Feelings
Understanding and Developing Family Morals, Values and Rules
Praising Children and their Behavior
Alternatives to Spanking
Learning Positive Ways to Deal with Stress and Anger

Groups will be held at 85 Grand St., Kingston
Transportation will be provided (Kingston area only)

Please call 845-331-5641 for further information.

Funding provided by NYSPEP

FSI Job Opening: Counselor/Advocate

2011-02-04T09:47:00.000-05:00

Job Opening: Counselor/Advocate
FSI's Battered Women's Services seeks a caring and competent individual with a variety of skills to work with adult victims of domestic violence. BA in Human Services field preferred, but 3 years relevant experience will be considered. Counseling, advocacy, crisis intervention, community organizing, public speaking, and related work experience preferred. Experience in domestic violence and bi-lingual (Spanish) a plus. Applicant must be highly organized and committed to the mission of the agency. Position is part-time with benefits. Send a cover letter and resume to Danielle Massa, Program Assistant, at dmassa@familyservicesny.org

Mary Ellen Still recipient of Leadership & Humanitarian Award

2011-01-27T12:03:00.002-05:00

Family Services offers our congratulations to Dutchess County Probation Director Mary Ellen Still, who has been selected as the recipient of the 2011 Sara Tullar Fasoldt Leadership and Humanitarian Award.

This award honors individuals who demonstrate extraordinary professionalism, personal commitment, and make a substantial difference in the lives of individuals’ involved in the criminal and juvenile justice systems. Based on Mary Ellen's work, she certainly deserves this honor.

Family Services staff know that when agencies work together to coordinate and collaborate, we can make a real difference in the lives of those we serve. Mary Ellen Still provides leadership and wisdom to our combined efforts. We thank you for that gift, Mary Ellen.

HVFCU Financial Services Raises Money to Help Community

2011-01-26T10:08:00.000-05:00

Family Services wants to publicly thank the people at HVFCU Financial Services for their donation.

And, as much as we love the Poughkeepsie Journal, we have to correct their headline. HVFCU didn't raise this money for Family Services. They raised it to help friends and neighbors who need the services that FSI provides to our kids, victims of domestic violence and crime, young adults in need of job training, teen parents, and people who need some help getting on their feet.

Financial group raises money for nonprofit | poughkeepsiejournal.com | Poughkeepsie Journal: "Family Services recently received a $3,400 donation from Hudson Valley Federal Credit Union, based in Poughkeepsie.

The money was raised during HVFCU Financial Services’ annual Member Appreciation Celebration, which featured antique appraisals and a silent action fundraiser.

Jeffrey Thatcher, director of HVFCU Financial Services, said in a press release, “It’s important to give back to your community, and this was a way for us to do that.”"

Thank you, Hudson Valley Federal Credit Union! Your donation is greatly needed and appreciated. It will be put to good use.

Walk a Mile with Family Services

2011-01-21T17:12:00.002-05:00

What on earth do you have on your feet?!

The International Men's March to Stop Rape, Sexual Assault & Gender Violence

There’s an old saying: “You can’t really understand another person’s experience until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.” Walk a Mile in Her Shoes® asks men to literally walk one mile in women’s high-heeled shoes. It’s not easy walking in those shoes, but it’s fun and gets the community talking about a difficult subject--gender relations and sexual violence.

On April 30, 2011, FSI’s Crime Victims Assistance Program will host its first Walk a Mile in Her Shoes event at Marist College.

Walk as an individual or get your friends or club to register as a team. Have some fun as you compete in your red high heels. Get your girlfriends to cheer you on. It's for a great cause -- to raise awareness and funds to stop gender violence. More details to follow.

Everyone is welcome. We are currently seeking sponsors. Contact Sharon Doane 452-1110 x3127 or sdoane@familyservicesny.org.

Like us on facebook or check back here for updates about walk registration and how you can participate!

Why is it so hard to fund teen parenting support programs?

2011-01-20T11:27:00.000-05:00

Sue West, President

From Sue West’s Desk

There’s plenty of public controversy about teens having, or not having, babies – comprehensive prevention vs. abstinence-only education vs. the route many of our Hudson Valley communities take – no education. Then there’s abortion vs. adoption vs. parenting.

Passion and controversy usually prompt people to reach into their pockets to support an issue. So, I sit here wondering why it’s so difficult to find financial support for Family Services Teen Parenting Program. We’ve had to strip services back to the bare minimum and keep searching for grants, corporate sponsors, and donors to help.

In December I received a long letter from Krisken Lewis-Coward. She’s given me permission to share her story with you. Here are some excerpts from her letter.

My name is Krisken Lewis-Coward. I have been a client in the teen parent program for 5.5 years. I was 15 years old and pregnant when my guidance counselor at Arlington High School […] referred me to the program….[Krisken talks about her Family Services case managers and how they helped her]

…Birthing classes
…Referred my best friend when she became pregnant
…Encouraged me to make some goals and stayed on top of me
…Supported me when I got married and pregnant again
…Helped me find all the best help and information…benefited not only me but my family

My husband and I both work, I also attend school and we take care of our girls the best way we know how and I just wanted to express my appreciation for the teen parent program and its staff. They are great….The case managers all helped me if I couldn’t get to [my case manager] Jessica and they have all grown quite fond of my children.

I just want to encourage you to keep the teen parent program going for as long as possible.… Even though I have aged out of the program I still have a bond with the staff and program and I will continue to be active in volunteering and helping in any way shape or form that I can.

When any teen makes the decision to have her baby, she will need – well, everything! Information, advice, money, handholding, acceptance, cheerleading, celebration, smiles, someone to cry with, a place to live, baby furniture, a compass to navigate through the complex relationships of parents, baby’s father, his and her families, and friends and, and, and…. In Krisken’s case, five and a half years’ worth of support.

Krisken went on to talk about a career working with teens and her hope that she can afford to make a donation to support the Teen Parenting Program soon. She’s only twenty. She has a husband, children, job, and school to juggle. She’s doing well and we’re proud of her successes.

As I reflect on all of this, I have two questions for you. I’d love to read your comments below.

Why do you think it’s so hard to get funding for teen parenting programs?

Is there anything you can do to help?

All the best to you on this icy January afternoon,
Sue

Watch Friday Night - Hope Survives: 30 Years of AIDS

2011-01-13T17:43:00.000-05:00

On Friday, January 14 at 9pm ET/PT on CNN, Anderson Cooper will host a special one-hour broadcast Hope Survives: 30 Years of AIDS.

Phill Wilson, President and CEO of the Black AIDS Institute, will join Sir Elton John, Dr. Anthony Fauci, Mo'Nique and others to provide insight and perspective on HIV/AIDS in the U.S., with a focus on stigma and the disproportionate impact of HIV on Black Americans and men who have sex with men. Phill will highlight pressing challenges and notable accomplishments, including the role of Greater Than AIDS - a new national movement to unite Americans on HIV/AIDS developed with the Kaiser Family Foundation.

As part of the show, CNN has filmed a montage with celebrities sharing personal "Deciding Moments" that changed how they thought about the disease and inspired them to get involved. As part of the Greater Than AIDS movement, hundreds of everyday Americans have already submitted their "Deciding Moments."

Greater Than AIDS is an unprecedented collaboration among a broad coalition of public and private sector partners united in response to the HIV/AIDS crisis in the United States. It is developed by the Kaiser Family Foundation and the Black AIDS Institute together with the Elton John AIDS Foundation, Ford Foundation, MAC AIDS Fund, the U.S. Centers for Disease Control & Prevention (CDC) and other partners.

For more information, visit: www.greaterthan.org

Portrait of Inequality Video

2011-01-12T16:15:00.000-05:00

Black Community Crusade for Children

Tomorrow Marian Wright Edelman of the Children's Defense Fund and Geoffrey Canada will announce new research on Black children. in crisis.

This is the challenge. Support Family Services and become part of the solution.

IRA Holders Can Still Make 2010 Charitable Distributions

2011-01-10T10:03:00.000-05:00

If you're over 70 1/2 you can still make a 2010 charitable contribution from your IRA this month, January 2011. GuideStar offers this information and links for more details:

IRA Holders Can Still Make 2010 Charitable Distributions: "Persons aged 70� or older can again enjoy tax savings by making charitable gifts directly from their Individual Retirement Accounts (IRAs), thanks to a provision of the Tax Relief, Unemployment Insurance Reauthorization, and Job Creation Act of 2010, which was signed into law December 17, 2010. The act also allows charitable distributions made from an IRA in January 2011 to be declared as 2010 gifts, should the IRA holder wish to do so."

By making a donation to Family Services, you are "Providing Hope. Improving lives. Strengthening Community." Thank you for all your support.

OASAS Training - Working with Criminal Justice Clients - Feb. 3 &4

2011-01-07T09:49:00.000-05:00

Workforce Development - OASAS Training: "Free OASAS-Sponsored Regional Trainings

The Family Partnership Center will be the site of a free two-day OASAS training for substance abuse treatment professionals.

Who Should Attend:

Professionals providing direct care in a substance abuse treatment setting, including clinical supervisory staff.
Professionals providing direct care in a criminal justice setting through drug courts, probation, or parole, including supervisory staff.

The New York State Office of Alcoholism and Substance Abuse Services’ (OASAS) Criminal Justice Unit will conduct a 12-hour training entitled “Working with Criminal Justice Clients” on January 18-19, 2011 at Johnson City Learning Center/BOCES, 500 Main Street, Johnson City, NY 13790, and on February 3-4, 2011 at Poughkeepsie Family Partnership Center, 29 North Hamilton Street, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.

Training hours are 9:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. with registration beginning at 8:30 a.m. This seminar will cover Criminal Thinking from the perspectives of Cognitive-Behavioral therapies and the parallels between the thinking distortions that support addictive behavior and the thinking distortions that support criminality.

This training meets established standards for 12 hours of Credentialed Alcoholism and Substance Abuse Counselor (CASAC Section 2), and Credentialed Prevention Professional/Credentialed Prevention Specialist (CPP/CPS Section 1) education and training. Participants are required to attend the full 12 hours of training to receive a certificate of completion. There will be no tuition charge for this training."

For more details and the application form click here.

Hudson Valley Press Online Features the Family Partnership Center and REAL

2011-01-06T19:00:00.000-05:00

Everyone likes to be the focus of good news and yesterday was a banner day for the Family Partnership Center and our partners! The Hudson Valley Press Online published two good-news articles that involve the Center.

The Wizards of Poughkeepsie cast on stage

The first highlighted the play "Wizards of Poughkeepsie" performed by youngsters in the Relationship Empowerment Affirmation Leadership (R.E.A.L.) Skills Network at the Family Partnership Center. Over 800 elementary school children attended the December play which put a hip-hop spin on the Wiz to underscore the importance of college. You can read about the play and the other great programs R.E.A.L. offers here.

The second article identified the range of services available through agencies located in the Partnership Center. From health care to teen parenting, battered women's services to literacy you can find what you need in a safe, convenient neighborhood center. You can read that article here.

NYBDC Foundation Provides Hot Meals for Kids

2011-01-03T20:07:00.000-05:00

Image by Ordered Chaos

There's nothing worse than being hungry and many of the TRAC members count on having dinner with us.

Thanks to the NY Business Development Corporation (NYBDC) Foundation for their recent donation. Their contribution will help provide hot dinners for the kids at the TRAC Center.

TRAC - the Teen Resource Activity Center - offers City of Poughkeepsie youth a safe environment after school hours. At TRAC youth have many opportunities, including participation in community service activities, academic assistance, recreational activities, sports, mentors, volunteer opportunities and field trips.

The NYBDC Foundation asked NYBDC directors to identify community organizations that have "a direct and meaningful impact on the communities they serve." Thanks to director Carl Meyer who recommended Family Services.

Thank You To Fairview Firefighters

2010-11-23T09:15:00.000-05:00

Thank you to our amazing friends Mark Bendel and Robert Ridley from the Fairview Fire Department for the tremendous donation of food to our Crime Victims Assistance Program and also to our Battered Women's Services program. Your support is sincerely appreciated. Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!

Teen Parenting Program Job Opening

2010-11-18T10:23:00.000-05:00

The Family Services Teen Parent Program assists young mothers and fathers in attaining increased self-sufficiency through advocacy, education, and support. We provide comprehensive case management services to pregnant and/or parenting teenagers throughout Dutchess County. We are a home visiting program. We have one Part-time Case Manager position available. Flexible schedule (22 hours per week) and benefits available. Great for graduate students. Qualified candidates must have a Bachelor’s degree in related field and have a valid driver’s license and car.

Please fax cover letter and resume to (845) 485-1932. Attn: Leanne Lawson, Program Coordinator Family Services Teen Parent Program

Holiday Adopt A Family

2010-11-15T14:16:00.001-05:00

This week our post comes from Leanne Lawson, Family Services' Teen Parenting Program Coordinator. Are you interested in making the holidays special for a local child?

The Family Services Teen Parent Program is looking for sponsors for our 2010 Adopt-A-Family drive. Our program helps young parents in our community learn parenting and self-sufficiency skills. We served approximately 170 pregnant and/or parenting families throughout Dutchess County each year. Many of our families have limited resources and live at or below the poverty level. If you would like to make the holidays brighter for a child and a young mother or father in our community, please consider adopting a family.

This is a great group activity as well! Many church groups, offices, classes, etc. will adopt a family together.

If you decide to adopt a family, we will give you all the pertinent information to help you select gifts (age, clothing size, gender) and arrange a date for the drop off of the gifts by mid-December. The gifts can include clothing, toys, toiletries, food, etc. Since we must assure the confidentiality of our clients, names and personal information will not be included.

Here is a profile of one of our families:

Mom is 19 years old and has a 2 year old son. Mom is working a full time overnight job and is saving up money to get an apartment. Mom dropped out of high school, but plans to start GED classes in January. Her little boy loves music and interactive toys. Mom has to use a lot of her paycheck to cover her transportation costs (buses/cabs) to get to her job, but is intent on working. Mom would greatly appreciate any help in making the holidays special for her son.

For more information, please contact Leanne Lawson, Family Services Teen Parent Program Coordinator at (845) 452-1110 x3173 or llawson@familyservicesny.org

A new day!

2010-06-28T10:55:00.000-04:00

Hello and Welcome-

A new day! Family Services' is venturing into the world beyond the website! This will be a placed where team members of Family Services discuss important issues, where people can ask us to discuss topics and where we can create a great dialogue. Join us on our journey into the great world of blogging!

Onward!